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Dave's avatar

I think you're right, obviously, that not all people have email jobs, but I also think it's astounding how much our culture *assumes* everyone has an email job. This was most obvious, and polarizing, in the discussion around remote work during Covid ("why can't everyone just stay home??") but also - nothing is open outside of work hours. If you need to talk to your insurance company, or your bank, or a lawyer; if you need to visit a government office or sort out your taxes - our culture just seems to assume that at least one spouse in every family can take a pointless phone call for half an hour every few days. It's another hidden tax on the poor - I think if both parents work on an assembly line or something they must just have to take their lumps with whatever the insurance company rejects or denies, because they're just not able to spend 45 minutes on hold while door panels come down the assembly line.

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Kelly, settling down's avatar

The concept of the email job helps me anchor a culturally unacceptable question that bugs me: why do women (and women seem to many/most? of these jobs) prioritize these kinds of jobs over staying home with children? I understand why someone with a burning passion for her work as a lawyer or doctor or rocket scientist really values the work and the intellectual challenge. And of course I understand that there are financial challenges for many: single mothers and breadwinners and caretakers of elderly parents and minimum wage earners etc cannot choose staying home over work. But many women working email jobs DO seem to derive their identity from *having* a job, even if the job itself is less satisfying than the alternative. As if sending emails and organizing calendars and attending meetings is somehow sticking it to the patriarchy.

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