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HL's avatar

Here’s what I think. I think that people are looking at their grocery bills, their rent, masking toddlers, shutting down schools, crime in their neighborhoods, chaos on the border, and they’re wondering why everyone they used to trust is still screeching about January 6th like it was Pearl Harbor and Trump like he’s still in charge, and then they finish up by reminding their readers that they’re horribly privileged racists.

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

Sigh. Right below your excellent piece in my inbox is the latest Anne Helen Petersen post, an interview with someone who wrote a book titled The Trouble with White Women. As you can imagine, according to the author, we are just the worst. We are exclusionary, hag-like agglomerations of Amy Cooper, Karens, and Sheryl Sandberg. And yet the only contemporary example the author offers of these oppressive white women is Sandberg, who is in fact the target not of most women’s admiration but rather of our censure for her “let them eat cake” attitude toward woman’s problems in the workplace. Otherwise, the only specific examples of oppressive white women are Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Susan B. Anthony, and Betty Friedan (who committed the sin of giving Paulie Murray a job as her assistant when no one else would). Has the author actually talked with any of the rest of us? It’s pure straw-womanning.

We on the left can’t afford to exclude our allies. We can’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good. I write this from Minnesota, where yesterday set a new heat record (55F), and today we’re under a tornado watch. In December. Climate change and economic pressures on regular people are more important than identity politics—I’m sorry, but they just are. If we can get help from people whose souls are flawed, yes, even from middle-aged white ladies like me, then we should take it. And we should stop letting Trump live in our heads. There is work too be done.

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