Young Lord Stancil here is a reliable instrument for unwittingly illustrating the internal contradictions of contemporary social justice politics. In theory, the concept of privilege checking is inherently introspective - it’s a way for the individual to ask him- or herself whether his or her perspective is impacted by privilege in such a way as to cloud judgment or create prejudice. That probably sounds unobjectionable, and (again in theory) it more or less is. The concept of “privilege” is typically abstracted so much as to be useless, but looking at your own perspective and what influences it is a useful exercise.
So what’s the issue? Look at Stancil here: what is introspective for him in these tweets? Where is his introspection? If privilege checking is a self-critical exercise, where is the self-criticism here? There’s literally none to be found, just like there’s none in anything Stancil ever says about social justice issues. He’s a man who has never met an intersectional analysis he could not bend into an advertisement for himself. I suppose we’re meant to presume that he’s been busily doing all of “the work” in the background, but as a public figure he exists in a state of total and ceaseless certainty about everything, all the time. What’s so wild here is that he parrots the standard-issue line that race and gender color people’s perspectives, but he appears totally incurious about how his white maleness influences his own performance of being an ally. Because people of his type are incapable of second-order thinking, he can’t ask himself if there’s more than one way to be influenced by your race and gender. Specifically, he’s a guy who’ll never wonder whether the way that he’s bent the critique of white men into a tool to glorify himself might not be, itself, an expression of white male privilege. This was the whole point about Good White Men: they have critiques of white men that they think are quite cutting, but they inevitably exempt themselves from those critiques in effect if not explicitly, which perversely means that complaining about white men advances their careers and interests as white men. I find that gross.
This is of course much greater than Stancil and greater even than privilege checking: modern identity politics contains a vast set of discursive tools that are meant to prompt self-critique but which are used, in practice, for the valorization of the individuals who most aggressively and shamelessly beat the drum. The person who would go on Tumblr to declare their white privilege would be aping a self-flagellating act, but would do so knowing full well that in the contrast they were drawing with peers, they were in fact participating in self-celebration. He who humbleth himself wishes to be exalted. And this is why privilege checking, in practice, is horseshit. I did six years in grad school in the humanities. Trust me: though conversations about failing to check one’s privilege grew like crabgrass, none of those conversations were inwardly focused. They were all inevitably about how some other person didn’t perform the necessary ablutions. Whatever theoretical value privilege checking might have collapses under the weight of its use as a tool for competing white people to assert greater virtue. If Stancil actually believed in the concept of privilege checking, and had integrity, he’d check his own privilege in private and then shut the fuck up about it. That would be actual introspection! Instead it’s all just part of his sales job.
Imagine if I said to Stancil, “your certainty that racism/sexism/homophobia are powerful forces in the world is, at best, qualified by your limited perspective.” Do you think he’d agree? No, of course not - the truths he knows are eternal, certain, existential. And it will never occur to him that, in this, he’s just like those white men he’s critiquing.
For the record, the real reason privilege checking fell out of favor is because checking your privilege doesn’t do anything. Like so much of cultural studies-inflected pseudo-left practices, it’s an entirely symbolic and semantic ritual. It turns out that even in the rare event that members of privileged groups actually checked their own privilege, they’re fully capable of going out into the world and deepening that privilege and abusing the people who don’t have it. Just like a lot of people put BLM signs in their windows and then avoided Black neighborhoods, just like a lot of men go to academic conferences and call themselves allies and then get aggressive with women at the conference hotel that night. The problem with making moral hygiene the centerpiece of your political project is that morality is a function of behavior, not of thought or emotion or intention. I’m sure Stancil sits at his laptop and talks about being good and thinks good things and feels good things and mistakes all of that for being moral. But only doing is moral, not being. So let’s do the right thing, yes for Black people and women and the poor and also for everyone else, and let’s forget about who’s performed the empty ritual of privilege checking. Who gives a shit?
I had a similar experience during my postgraduate studies. In the end, it’s just word games, nothing ever happens. It’s as if the endless invention of new terms, identities, language games, manners were a compensatory mechanism for the objective failure of the socialist movement in the West over the past century. And then there’s also clearly the status-seeking element of the endless privilege-checking, as you note; whole departments of ‘scholars’ essentially competing to see who can say the right words in the right way until someone else trips up and they can stop the pretence of civility.
There’s such a shallowness and paranoia to it all, especially in ‘progressive’ academic departments. Friends and working relationships all depend on whether you have the exact same beliefs as everyone else, and express them in exactly the right way.
I also think a lot of it is essentially identity construction. It's people who really *do nothing* other than passively consume things self-constructing something trying to be tangible. It's the same thing as all the theory nerds on Twitter basically theorycrafting their niche political identity ('Straussian post-anarchist communization' or whatever.) It's just words chasing other words.
I think one of the moments I realised I’d had enough was when, in a bit of an argument over some political issue or another, I said, ‘even if what you say is true, you need to actually convince and persuade people, not scream and yell at them in the hope you’ll cow and shame them into pretending they do.’
And she said, ‘No, I don’t, there’s no argument or debate to be had here. There are people on my side and the rest are bigots.’
What immediately came to mind was Adorno's famous line that, “Intolerance of ambiguity is the mark of an authoritarian personality.”
I realised I really wasn't suited to a world where I had to navigate that sort of shit. Glad I left that life behind me. I can still read the writers who move me, from Adorno to Houellebecq, but on my own terms, now.
It reminds me of the now (apparently) mandatory practice of an organization confessing that their facility is erected on land stolen from a particular Native American group before they get on with whatever their job is. (I'm thinking of two theater companies here in Southern California. This ceremony was the most performative thing I saw.) What does this do, precisely? Who does it help? I have to say that it inspired nothing but cynical contempt in at least one patron - me. Now, if they had tracked down some descendants of those original Native Americans and given the land back to them, no strings attached... THAT would have impressed me, and I would have felt nothing but admiration, certainly more than I felt for their crappy production of MacBeth.
Also, Young Lord Stancil sounds like a Netflix show.