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Freddie deBoer's avatar

Apparently I need to explain the same things every time I write. You guys: the average American public school and the modal American public school student are doing perfectly fine. The best performers in the American public school system are the envy of the world. We do not have a problem in the large majority of our educational contexts. Our numbers look bad because of a relatively small number of students in a small number of geographically bounded areas that have truly terrible performance. There's a lot to say about those negative outliers, and I've said a lot, but it's essential that you all understand that if you reach into the pile of American public schools at random and pull one out, the odds are overwhelming that you're going to be finding a school where the median student is doing perfectly okay academically and where there is no significant criminality problem at all. I understand that many of you have a perception otherwise, but that perception is incorrect.

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We send our child to private school. For us, it's completely about the social experience and (lack of) ed tech. We didn't even look at average test scores. Actually, our child's school is less rigorous than public school in some ways, so I don't know how favorable the comparison would even be.

But around here, the crisis is behavior. One of our private school teachers who fled public school told me her retirement is HALF of what it would be if she'd stayed -- but she couldn't take it anymore. The stress was destroying her. I don't want my child to be around constant disruptions, or (worse) influenced by the kids with behavior problems.

The other issue is the Chromebooks and the phones. (Not to mention, they switch to "remote learning" for flurries, thunderstorms, etc.) Our local schools bought into ed tech, and the results have been bad. I don't want him on screens in elementary school, because I think it's awful for his focus and learning -- he'd be doing off-task fidgets on the computers all day, I just know it.

We are tentatively looking into public school for when he ages out of his private elementary school. We're not (complete) snobs. But we'd like to find one where the administration doesn't tolerate bad behavior, and this seems like a much bigger challenge than finding a school with good test scores.

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